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Guilt (emotion)

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  • In 1946, Otto Fenichel published The Psychoanalytic Theory of Neurosis to describe how guilt functions as a persistent internal conflict. Sigmund Freud argued that this feeling stems from a child's fear of losing parental love. He believed the child turns this fear inward to create self-directed anger. This process begins in early childhood when parents reject the child for perceived misbehavior. Alice Miller later claimed many people suffer all their lives from this oppressive feeling. She stated no argument can overcome these guilt feelings because they derive their intensity from life's earliest period. Les Parrott called this phenomenon the disease of false guilt at its root. He suggested the idea that what you feel must be true drives this condition. Therapists recognized similar feelings in individuals who survived traumatic events involving a loved one perishing. They labeled this specific experience survivor's guilt.

  • Repression serves as a primary defense mechanism used by the superego against instinctive impulses. If this defense fails, one may begin to feel guilty years later for actions lightly committed at the time. Eric Berne noted this return of the repressed in his 1976 book A Layman's Guide to Psychiatry and Psychoanalysis. Projection offers another tool where the victim of an accident or bad luck receives criticism instead of the perpetrator. The theory suggests the victim may be at fault for having attracted the other person's hostility. Alternatively, the condemning agency itself gets projected onto other people. Sharing a feeling of guilt becomes a motive force in both art and joke-telling. People borrow a sense of guilt from someone seen as wrong to assuage their own pain. Self-harm sometimes replaces compensating the object of transgression. This manifests as not allowing oneself to enjoy opportunities open to others due to uncompensated guilt feelings.

  • Individuals high in psychopathy lack any true sense of guilt or remorse for harm they cause others. Instead, they rationalize behavior, blame someone else, or deny it outright. These individuals have little ability to plan ahead for the future. They will do whatever it takes to benefit themselves without reservation. To them, their actions can always be rationalized to be the fault of another person. One study found that under certain circumstances, these subjects could willfully empathize with others. Brain scans showed the area relating to pain activated when asked to imagine how a harmed individual felt. The research suggests psychopaths can switch empathy on at will. Neuroscientist Antonio R. Damasio showed that subjects with damage to the ventromedial prefrontal cortex lack the ability to empathically feel moral answers. Adrian Raine noted society may need to rethink how it judges immoral people who feel no empathy or remorse.

  • Some evolutionary psychologists theorize that guilt and shame helped maintain beneficial relationships like reciprocal altruism. If a person feels guilty when harming another, he is more likely not to become too selfish. This reduces chances of retaliation by members of his tribe and increases survival prospects. As highly social animals living in large groups, humans need ways to deal with conflicts. If someone causes harm and then demonstrates regret and sorrow, the person harmed is likely to forgive. Thus, guilt makes forgiveness possible and helps hold the social group together. Collective guilt arises among a group when perceived illegitimate harm targets another group. An individual must identify himself as part of the in-group to experience this reaction. This produces a perceptual shift from thinking of oneself in terms of I and me to us or we. It results from sharing a social identity with others whose actions represent a threat to positivity of that identity.

  • Cultural Anthropologist Ruth Benedict described shame as the result of violating cultural or social values. She contrasted this with guilt conjured up internally when personal morals are violated. The primary difference lies in the source creating the emotion. Shame arises from real or imagined negative perception coming from others. Guilt arises from a negative perception of one's own thoughts or actions. Psychoanalyst Helen Block Lewis stated the experience of shame is directly about the self. In guilt, the self is not the central object of negative evaluation but rather the thing done. Traditional Japanese society and Chinese culture are sometimes said to be shame-based rather than guilt-based. They focus on social consequences of getting caught over individual feelings. Ancient Greek society collapsed if honor was destroyed according to Bruno Snell. Christianity and Islam inherit most notions of guilt from Judaism, Persian, and Roman ideas interpreted through Augustine.

  • Guilt in the Christian Bible functions as both an emotional state and a legal state deserving punishment. The Hebrew Bible uses a single word to signify sin, the guilt of it, and the punishment due unto it. The Greek New Testament uses a word meaning standing exposed to judgment for sin. Romans 3:19 illustrates this exposure. Forgiveness comes through sacrifice in the Old Testament though Judaism holds forgiveness is exclusively through repentance. The New Testament states Christ died for sins according to Scriptures. Those who accept Christ's sacrifice will be redeemed by God and thus not guilty before Him. Eternal life takes effect after the Second Coming of Christ. The Bible agrees with pagan cultures that guilt creates a cost someone must pay. Unlike pagan deities demanding debts paid by humans, God loved humanity enough to pay it Himself. Matthew 5:45 expresses this divine love.

  • The word developed its modern spelling from the Old English form gylt meaning crime, sin, fault, fine, or debt. This term possibly derives from Old English gieldan meaning to pay for or debt. Guilty shares similar roots from Old English gyltig itself from gylt. Its development into a sense of guilt appeared in 1690 as a variation of original meaning. Guilt by association first recorded in 1941 marks another linguistic shift. The Latin word culpa appears in law literature such as mea culpa meaning my fault. These terms trace back to ancient concepts of paying for wrongs committed against others. Modern usage retains these historical connections between moral failure and financial obligation.

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What did Otto Fenichel publish in 1946 to describe how guilt functions as a persistent internal conflict?

Otto Fenichel published The Psychoanalytic Theory of Neurosis in 1946 to describe how guilt functions as a persistent internal conflict. This work outlines the mechanisms by which guilt operates within the human psyche.

When did the word guilt develop its modern spelling from Old English gylt meaning crime or sin?

The development into a sense of guilt appeared in 1690 as a variation of original meaning. The term evolved from the Old English form gylt which signified crime, sin, fault, fine, or debt.

Who argued that guilt stems from a child's fear of losing parental love and turns this fear inward to create self-directed anger?

Sigmund Freud argued that this feeling stems from a child's fear of losing parental love. He believed the child turns this fear inward to create self-directed anger during early childhood when parents reject the child for perceived misbehavior.

Why do individuals high in psychopathy lack any true sense of guilt or remorse for harm they cause others?

Individuals high in psychopathy lack any true sense of guilt or remorse because they rationalize behavior, blame someone else, or deny it outright. These individuals have little ability to plan ahead for the future and will do whatever it takes to benefit themselves without reservation.

How does collective guilt arise among a group according to evolutionary psychologists who theorize about maintaining beneficial relationships like reciprocal altruism?

Collective guilt arises among a group when perceived illegitimate harm targets another group. An individual must identify himself as part of the in-group to experience this reaction which produces a perceptual shift from thinking of oneself in terms of I and me to us or we.